Make it make sense for me. How are you the most watched person in the room and the most overlooked person in the room at the same time? If that sentence really struck a cord with you... I want to let you know that you are not crazy. You are not too sensitive. And you are definitely not imagining the fact that you are working HARDER than everybody around you and somehow getting the least credit for it. I lived this. So let me tell you what is actually going on, and what you can do about it....

You have a job. You are good at it. The thought of sitting across from a hiring manager when nobody is making you do it sounds like a waste of a perfectly good afternoon. I get it. But let me ask you something. If you got laid off tomorrow, and you have not interviewed in two years, what are you going to do? Not three weeks from now when the savings start looking thin. Tomorrow. Are you even ready for what the interview process looks like right now? Because here is the truth most women find...

I want you to think about every single good thing that has ever happened in your life. Your relationship. The job you have right now. The city you moved to. The opportunity you almost talked yourself out of. Now ask yourself: did you know for certain any of it was going to work out? You didn’t, but you said yes anyway. And that uncertain yes changed everything. So if you’re sitting here right now, scared to make a career move, wondering if now is even the right time, afraid of what happens if...